Women that are stuck in high school mean girl psychology (meaning they are intellectually stagnant, emotionally unevolved, and psychospiritually barren)—they form cliques of emotional instability, where malicious group chatter, passive-aggressive sabotage, and performative alliance-building are the main currencies of connection. And in these counterfeit social circles, it’s not about genuine connection or depth of soul as a reflection of character development, integrity, and maturity—it’s about power plays, tyrannical group dynamics, and maintaining a pecking order that is built on insecurity, envy, and displaced self-loathing, where these unholy, Jezebelic circles of collective dysfunction thrive off chaos, constant drama, scapegoating, and emotional immaturity. And the moment someone enters the room who doesn’t play by those rules—who refuses to engage in the reputation games, who won’t participate in the malicious bonding activities, or who disrupts their pack-style targeting by simply standing firm in their own grounded presence—they’ll either try to pull that person into their dysfunction or push them out altogether.

But don’t think it’s just women that participate in these low-conscious group dynamics—it can also be weak-willed and weak-minded men who are just as equally intellectually stagnant, emotionally unevolved, and psychospiritually barren. Because just like how Ahab enabled Jezebel in the biblical mythos—not out of strength, but out of passivity, fear, and a lack of moral backbone—these types of men perpetuate collective instability, protect toxicity, and uphold corrupt social orders by refusing to take a stand against the dysfunctional group climate or to address the subterranean group toxicity festering in plain sight. And this is exactly why being assertive with our boundaries and suffering no fools when it comes to these types of group dynamics isn’t just a preference—it’s a necessity for anyone committed to protecting their peace, preserving their self-respect, and refusing to participate in relational systems that are built on depthless social posturing, retaliatory dynamics, and inauthentic connection.

Because the moment we stop shrinking ourselves and stop compromising our own integrity just to survive in these sick systems of social decay and spiritual cowardice, it is the moment those systems start to unravel under the weight of their own spiritual bankruptcy. And when that happens, everything that has been built on shallow alliances, performative morality, and collective emotional dishonesty begins to collapse—clearing the way for environments that are actually rooted in depth of spirit, elevated discernment, substance of character, inner integrity, and conscious-based leadership and group dynamics—to finally rise.

So, when you see it start to happen, step back and let the old architecture of community, social belonging, or group identity maintenance crumble. And don’t interfere with the collapse, don’t rescue anyone that’s attached to the old dynamics, and don’t mourn the loss of what was never built to last. Instead, hold your ground, embody the new standard, and be ready to welcome what’s starting to emerge out of the ashes of the social rot that was once passed off for a “healthy” communal structure—so that a new reality shaped by pure-hearted authority, multidimensional insight, the ongoing refinement of human consciousness, and a higher order of being can take root and thrive (a higher order and reality that doesn’t require conformity to spiritually barren atmospheres of pharisaic mean-girl/boy groupthink, collective fakery, or outdated soul-disconnected paradigms of human interaction and governance masquerading around as righteousness).